In a thorough description of Miss Havisham, Pip describes
her as "most weird," as with "witch-like eagerness" she "extorted from Estella the names
and conditions of the men whom she had fascinated." It is as though Miss Havisham draws
life from Estella. And, at this point, Pip reflects upon the artificiality of Miss
Havisham's life with the mere candle light in an air that "is seldom renewed." He
regards the gloom, the stopped clock, the withered garments, and Miss Havisham's
"ghostly reflection thrown large by the fire upon the ceiling and
wall."
Pip notices the "bitter sense of dependence" that
Miss Havisham has regarding Estella. For, it is as though Miss Havisham can exist
only by vicariously experiencing what Estella has. Thus, after Estella is cold to her,
Miss Havisham appears ghostly to Pip. Later, as he lies awake in a separate part of the
house across the courtyard, he is haunted by a vision in his mind of "a thousand Miss
Havishams." So, he rises and goes to a long stone passageway where he sees "Miss
Havisham going along it in a ghostly manner, making a low cry." As he moves away, Pip
hears her "ceaseless low cry."
From a witch-like
appearance, Miss Havisham has withered to a mere ghost of a person. For while her goal
in life has been to wreak revenge on men through Estella, she has drawn sustenance for
her life from her love for the girl. When Estella tells her that she cannot return a
love she has been taught to not possess, Miss Havisham, withered already by her life of
deprivation, now becomes ghostly. She is a mere apparition of herself; Pip notes that
on the subsequent visits he notices "something like fear infused" among the former
characteristics of Miss Havisham's manner with Estella.